Consistency

One thought has been driving further and further into my soul lately... the idea of Consistency. It seems like it should not be that hard to stay true to character or have actions match words... But over and over I find a lack of congruency... Its like an epidemic. We think we can be whoever, whenever, that whatever is relevant to us for the moment can determine the outcome... But what happened to being compelled by Christ living in us to live from the inside out. Where did the consistency of character and integrity go? Are we so taken by the moment or the instant pleasure that we lose sight of who we are putting on a temporary mask or covering up the true identity... Who are we? Who do we want to be? It is not so much what we do, but the fact that who we are compels what we do should trigger the depths of our hearts...

Cassie Bernall once said, "I just try not to contradict myself" "I just want to get rid of all the hypocrisy and live for Jesus Christ" Are we too overwhelmed by this world to remember who we are? Day in and day out we say one thing do another. How can we be okay living like that? Contradiction leaves room for doubt. It takes away trust. It contradicts consistency. Living in the light takes away those shadows that we try to hide. By coming to terms with who we are, even if we are struggling we are still being consistent knowing that we are weak on our own. Christ is our strength.

The life of Christ is not about a list of rules and regulations. But out of our heart we are compelled to live like Christ. The Bible does not say do not live like the devil, it says "SHINE". Shine like Christ. Be a light in the dark. We have to remember who we are. We cannot focus on the things that hold us back but the power we have in Christ.

You know what... stuff happens. We have to let the past refine us, not define us. We must keep moving forward, getting stuck is an obstacle to Christ's work in our life. If we are not growing we are dying. I feel like so often we all get so stuck on our own islands. We are stubborn and stuck with our eyes on ourself. We feel alone, like we are the only ones feeling a burden, but Christ has already taken that burden. We are all going through things, why don't we come along side and help each other move on. We would rather have our own little pity parties and just let our minds dwell in it. We either just want to let our minds be controlled by fear and doubt or try to blame everything else except for looking in the mirror and taking an evaluation of ourself.

I want to live my life not to contradict myself. So as I continue to find out who I am I have to stay true to the fact that I am inadequate, I am unworthy, I am human, but I am also a child of God and living in respect and obedience of his reverent power I can live knowing that I am loved. His love compels me. So I act out of what I have the opportunity to do, not be constrained by the things that I should not do. Because a life with Christ is so much greater, I can experience so much more, and I can live looking forward, moving forward, and being a consistent disciple of my Savior and Lord. While I may fall, my faith and love will never waiver, because I know who I am, and the TRUTH guides me towards significance and freedom as I identify myself with Abba Father.

Consistency...

“Watch your thoughts, for they become words.
Watch your words, for they become actions.
Watch your actions, for they become habits.
Watch your habits, for they become character.
Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.”

One of my favorite books: Ruthless Trust, by Brennan Manning

So often I try to understand, asking why, how, what, or when. Jesus wants me to reply, "I trust you I will follow you". If I say I love JEsus why sometimes do I have such a hard time trusting... Each day I pray "I love you Jesus, help my lack of trust" Life is a journey and we must follow the true purpose

"Ruthless Trust is an unerring sense, way deep down, that beneath the surface agitation, boredom and insecurity of life, it's gonna be all right. Ill winds may blow, more character defects may surface, sickness may visit, and friends will surely die. But a stubborn, irrefutable certainty persists that God is with us and loves us in our struggle to be faithful. A nonrational, absolutely true intuition perdures that there is something unfathomably big in the universe (kabod/glory), something that points to Someone who is filled with peace and power, love and undreamed of creativity -- Someone who inevitably will reconcile all things in himself. . .

Why does our trust offer such immense pleasure to God? Because trust is the pre-eminent expression of love. Thus, it may mean more to Jesus when we say, 'I trust you,' than when we say, 'I love you.'

Where am I in all this? With you, clasping hands each morning and crying out in union, "Lord Jesus, I trust you, help my lack of trust." (pp. 180-181)

Victorious limp

My world has been rocked lately by Brennan Manning's book RAGAMUFFIN GOSPEL... This is some of the excerpt I read today and I just had to copy the best parts. 

The biblical image of the victorious life reads more like the victorious limp. Jesus was victorious not because He never flinched, talked back, or questions, but having flinched talked back, and questioned, He remained faithful…. Our whole understanding of God is based in a quid pro quo of bartered love. He will love us if we are good, moral, and diligent. But we have turned the tables so that he will love us, rather than living because he has already loved us. (175-177)

Faithfulness requires the courage to risk everything on Jesus, the willingness to keep growing, and the readiness to risk failure throughout our lives… Risking everything on Jesus: the ragamuffins gospel says we can’t lose, because we have nothing to lose. Faithfulness to Jesus implies that with all our sins, scars, and insecurities, we satnd with Him; that we are formed and informed by His Word… The willingness to keep growing: Unfaithfulness is a refusal to become, a rejection or grace (grace that is inactive is an illusion), and the refusal to be oneself… The readiness to risk failure: Many of us are haunted by our failure to have done with our lives what we longed to accomplish. This disparity between our ideal self and our real self, the grim specter of past infidelities, the awareness that I am not living what I believe, the relentless pressure of conformity, and the nostalgia for lost innocence reinforces a nagging sense of existential guilt: I have failed. This is the cross we never expected, and the one we find hardest to bear. (185-186)

The ragamuffin who sees his life as a voyage of discovery and runs the risk of failure has a better feel for faithfulness than the timid man who hides behind the law and never finds out who he is at all. Winston Churchill said “success is never final; failure is never fatal. It is the courage that counts.” (187)

Letter to my team(4/6):

One pitch at a time, one inning at a time, live in the moment to rise up and dig deep within yourself to find that desire, that drive to be the best you can be. Achieving greatness isn't succeeding every time, but it is giving it everything you have, the best that you have, and waking away knowing you gave it your all. If you go out and do what you know you can do, you will end up on top. God has gifted each one of you with certain talents and strengths. Live up to your potential. Let your talents play for the glory of God. Let your strengths shine as you come together as one team, as one unit, as one family. Where you are weak, another is strong, that is why you need each one of your teammates. Edify and build up one another, encouraging each player to achieve their own possible greatness. And with great power and confidence rest in the fact that God is your ultimate source of strength. With him, everything is possible.

"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, who face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly; who errs and comes short again and again; because there is not effort without error and shortcomings; but

 who does actually strive to do the deed; who knows the great enthusiasm, the great devotion,, who spends himself in a worthy cause, who at best knows in the e

nd the triumph of high achievement and who at worst, if he fails, at least he fails while daring greatly. So that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who know neither victory nor defeat." -Theodore Roosevelt

It's our house, our game... Their blood their pain.." Have courage today. Dare greatly. Strive valiantly. Focus on your wins, not failures. Take every loss as an opportunity to learn. Rather than win loss it is win learn. Change your perspective so every setback is just a stepping stone to you getting better. If you don't get a hit, take that chance to learn, grow, step up. WINLEARN! not winlose. When you are giving your best, that is what is asked of you. So we are either succeeding or becoming

 aware of ways we can get better. Therefore, we never fail. There's only room for rising up in each moment. Give it your best, give it your all. Believe in yourse

lf and believe in eachother. I believe in you.

choosing

Every day is a choice... A choice to live for a purpose, live for something you created. We were created to life life to the fullest, to experience greatness in who we can be. Not success, but significance. Significance is who you are, not what you do. Choosing the other option, you choose to go through the motions of life, the complacency and lack of effort.  But we must desire to choose the straight and narrow. There is one way... choose wisely. 

Dreams

Your whole life you are told to dream big... follow your dreams... never give up on your dreams... keep on dreaming...

But what do you do if those dreams seem to be gone, to be done..  You dreamed one thing your whole life, and now its over...  the bliss and energy of that moment are just a memory, you can't go back... but you can't seem to exactly go forward.  Where do you go from there?  You try to keep on dreaming but it just is not the same...  Everyday living that dream gets farther and farther away.  You try to keep on going but no longer do you know what you are looking forward to.  The last chapter is over, but how does the next one begin?

I guess I know to keep pressing on until I find my way.  The straight and narrow is there, its just not as easy to follow so I have to be ready for an adventure.

Vision

So we are supposed to find this place in between present and future where we can live in the present but still holding onto our broad vision and dream of the future.  How can we do this?  

Tony Dungy once said "The first step toward creating an improved future is developing the ability to envision it.  VISION will ignite the fire of passion that fuels our commitment to do WHATEVER IT TAKES to achieve excellence.  Only VISION allows us to transform dreams of greatness into the reality of achievement through human action.  VISION has no boundaries and knows no limits.  Our VISION is what we become in life."

Am I dreaming this big?  Or am I settling with complacency and mediocrity.  Greatness takes surrendering my life to the passion and fuel that drives me.  Excellence is not measured by this world, but by my greater purpose in which I live for.  God calls the ordinary to do the extraordinary.  I can never doubt his power in me but live knowing that his will surpasses all understanding.   He knows the way.  He knows my dreams.  I just have to commit and keep dreaming the vision.

blessings

Just wanted to say... God is good.  He has us right where he wants us if we continue to seek him.  I am striving to see Christ in the little things.  To see his overflowing blessings that are all around me. One moment at a time.   Just  like your rainbow  at the end of the flood.  The sun will always shine after the storm.  There is hope.  There is a promise.  There is purpose.   

What do I really see?

Faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see...  Do I truly believe this?  Is my faith a moment to moment reality in my life?  Or is it conditional?  So often I say I believe... but does every part of my being really believe this?  Would my faith surpass all understanding that I press into God more and more?  I think I constantly find myself asking why? How? What? which are examples of my doubt...  How can we get to a place where our faith becomes a reality?  where our eyes do not search for material things but we see treasures in heaven through the eyes of Christ. 

I know that too often I jump to conclusions or become impatient when all God is asking me to do is wait.  Wait upon the Lord, for he knows whats best...  Wait but I know whats best for me right??  That is what the little voice in my head tries to tell me...  But I need to search for truth.  Surrender my desires to the will of God and take steps day by day to follow him.  Reading my Bible Study today I was so stoked about what God can do in us and through us.  I want so much to be used by Him, but I have so much to learn... 

Waiting: Waiting redefines our desires and aligns our purpose with his (Hebrews 11:1) (2 Cor. 4:18)

Faith: spiritual sight. Reality in the power of God, plans, purpose, his voice, and his promises (Hebrews 11:3)

Prayer: prayer impacts the invisble and expresses our faith which is in harmony with truth (James 1:2-4)

Perseverance: ability to go the distance. The refiners fire our proves our faith (1 Peter 1:7)

"Pray as though everything depended on God.  Work as though everything depended on you." 

-Saint Augustine

Perspective

Perspective is key.  It determines everything.  The way we think, the way we act, the way we respond, the way we react.  We sometimes interpret things the way we want to see them rather than the way they really are...  This makes it sound like its a bad thing... but what if we made this to be a positive thing... to see the good in everything around us.  To look beyond the things of this world and see the goodness in the chaos, the beauty in the broken, or the splendor in the disregarded.  To see through Christ's eyes we are able to look past what may be seen as inadequate or unworthy and find true value.  We are unworthy, but Christ saw beyond our brokenness and overwhelmed us with his love.  So in seeing through his eyes we are compelled to act out of love.  Out of the overflow of who we are our mouth speaks and our lives act.  So actions speak louder than words.  To change our perspective may require us to also change our actions... Think about it...  What do you see?

Be Still

So often we fill our lives with busyness and just keep going keep going and keep going.  We don't give ourselves a second to think, breathe, or relax.  We would rather keep on running than actually look at our life around us.  The faster we run the more we can get done, the faster we get through it...  But what do we miss in the meantime?  The Beauty of each day, of each moment... 

I have been realizing so much about myself this year.  My whole life has been one big scheduled BUSYNESS... It's time to be still.  Be still in the moment so I can experience Christ working around me and not just look back at it afterwords.  Be still in the moment so I can grasp opportunity, so I can seize the goodness of each possibility.  Be still  in the moment so I can experience true feelings and not just push my emotions to the side.  Be still in the moment so I can courageously become more of who I am, not just who people want me to be.  Be still in the moment so I can see every smile, every tear, every beautiful thing... I have to be still in the chaos to see where God is leading me.  I have to be still so I can hear his voice.  

Then I can truly follow Him for he is my God.

Psalm 46:10

New Years Resolution

So its January 15.  Half a month late isn't too late to start a New Years Resolution right... Well here it is.  And hopefully I will be able to do better than my commitment at the beginning of the month.  I figured it was time I joined the blogging community.  Considering I love to write and just get some thoughts out there, guess its a good idea.  

So as a little intro... Bethany Weisser.  I have lots of dreams, lots of aspirations, but I am taking one day at a time.  As I walk by faith I am learning more and more how to follow after the heart of God.  As Christ lives in me, I want to live in LOVE.  Without true love and his amazing grace I would not be who I am today.  It's been quite a journey.  But I want to continue to fly or at least try.  So here's a shot....